This will be my personal experience when I am muslim and marry a crackpot who will basically kill me. I marry him ONLY for the call of children. And to save them. You would never ever hear of such harsh fate in buddhism for a saint. But of course, it totally has in place many many sweetness of parenthood. as a muslim woman I will be, I will simply be ULTRA old school, the real deal. I will teach the student of brian, if she cares, then.