Definitely, how grounding to realize how small my family is.

They really could not help me much with whom they are when I was quite upset with them.

Remember: as my grandma said 'on ne fait que ce que l'on peut'. Dotn be a snob ever to your loved ones ever again, anouchka. You will learn even more with what is to come, how to never be a snob. It is very important for a future saviour in the legends, to accept your roots humbly and with care and love. Not everyone will be a hero of war. Love everyone anyway. You may be just what they need to get more enlightened, though they are totally normal people, meaning, not geniuses.