I cant believe I thought once I was wise...I am super foolish! I see tonight that my mind is super untrustworthy because i am super ignorant and that ignorance stresses me out to no end. I should have never let the guy decide to drill or not in the roof's floor. He had drilled the ceiling (cut a hole) and afterwards hubby made him notice that everything was super dry. There was no need for the second hole. Other people are not smarter than me, I should make my own decisions when asked by anyone. I thought I could leave it to him (the plumber) to do the best thing since he was supposed to know what he was doing. But he did not.
Meanwhile tonight, my mind is causing me lots of grief and that is very foollish and not wise at all.