BJG is truly one of a kind, rather special. I would be so isolated and forgotten by all who know me if he was not there. Turly, very few people care about me. I have NO ONE but hubby. The rest , saved for my poet friend on tumblr who may one day visit us, would NEVER go to great lenghts to help. That includes my parenst and especially my sister who was never there for me.  But  I have my husband who does EVERYTHING for me. BJG is my huge blessing. I had no help from anyone before him yet I was so unloved by my family and nobody showed me they cared before. This is a fact.