Our bad luck has to make sense when it is so constant. Feeling like we are an agent is super important when we are victims of abuses by strangers and loved ones. Kamma explains it nicely. And the eternity of our reincarnations too. Like hubby said, we will try everything if we are blessed eventually. In the meanwhile, we learn each time but for that, we must be free agents in a world of suffering. We must see oursleves that way and become accountable only to God (when trauma is extensive and makes no sense).