Hubby denies that pot is why he finds work so very stressful. That is denial. His tolerance for work is zero basically. And I know it is because of his super heavy smoking. Anyway, I am relaxed tonight so dont stress out too much about his full return to work. I am so serene and motivated in my decision to be sober. It is relatively easy for me to quit the weed. I have done it twice in the last year and a bit more. These sober periods do not guarantee that I dont decompensate if I have a huge stress, but they sure help overall.