I started the dishwasher again (I wanted quiet while hubby was out with  mutts) and the dogs are back. I spoke with my good mother about BJG and vented. Once in a while, I do. It really helps me to have someone to vent to. She is the only one truly. Thank you Green Tara for inspiring us, my mother and I, to listen better to each other. OM TARE TUTTARE TURE SVOHA