I had a nice dream where I dreamed of Alan and we were both working in dog adoption shelters. BJG said it was nothing his anger yesterday and accusations and I was blowing it out of proportions! It was huge! He said I was psychologically abusing him by asking him to try quinoa more often in meals, that he stayed with me for pity, that my food was crap, etc etc. The abusive language was worst than I have heard it for quite a while. All this drastic change because he smoked and he smoked again last night.