Oh goodness, this is such a good music cd. I feel very sad about BJG tonight. He is refusing to understand and hear what he did wrong and recognize it. He just impatientely ordered me to come upstairs ot check on the dog who 'wanted a walk'. I asked him if he was first in a good mood. Then he told me off. So i said, 'I just want to make sure I dont get yelled at again'. And he slammed his door. It is so sad. I see all the signs of 2015 around the curb. He LOVES being aggressive and impolite in general, it gives him a buzz. I am amazed he never got in a fight , physically, with a stranger before. He is super rude and aggro at times. He thinks I am wrong. Or that he is right, rather, to have behaved that way. He has stopped the counseling he had started, about a three weeks ago, just when his mom was dying. I thought it unwise at the time.