I am asking my dad to stop thinking he cannot make me happy and do send white flowers to Jennifer's burial. I trust he will have a change of heart about his mother's wise counsel about claudette. I will never know why he married her. She must have been very pretty. 

A very sad marriage for him to a woman he never ever understood what it is to love anyone. Certainly not Lilou. Dad is reborn with some tough lives of course, like all of us. But never ever handicapped. Claudette goes off on a moon with alzheimer for the rest of this precious life she wasted in hatred againts everything peaceful.